Some Useful Quotes on Opposites

Just a couple of quotes I found helpful, maybe you will, too!

Painting above: Star Gazing (c. 1989) by Helen Frankenthaler


from Crossing the Unknown Sea: Work as a Pilgrimage of Identity by David Whyte.

(Note Whyte is actually quoting his friend, Brother David)


“The antidote to exhaustion is wholeheartedness […] You are so tired through and through because a good half of what you do here in this organization has nothing to do with your true powers, or the place you have reached in your life. You are only half here, and half here will kill you after a while. You need something to which you can give your full powers.”



from The Enchanted Life: Unlocking the Magic of the Everyday by Sharon Blackie


The opposite of true belonging is nostalgia: a longing for a place which  no longer exists - or which maybe never existed at all, except in our imagination.



More from Sharon Blackie here.
More from David Whyte here.

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